Marriage Vs Spiritual Life

Absolutely Anindita - totally agreed. We should now form the pillar and try to induce this though to our next generation & break-up the society driven Calcified thoughts & selfish motives. Also, friendship is the groundwork of any relationship while Spirituality is the core of it (and most imp in marriage) and if bot of these are achieved then 90% job done.....and we then just enjoy the journey without expecting anything.

Thanks Rupali.... even I also needed this😘🙏🙏

:) tere liye hi post kiya ise

This u used to explain me over our conversation..n i so badly wanted it to be recorded...n higher beings made it possible 🙏😃... Every couple should read this bible ...then shaadi ka alag hi charm ho jaye n companionship ka maaza aye..thanku so much🙏🙏🙏

Either we get married or we don't..... Spiritual life improves only with the right attitude. In order to improve our spiritual life we need right thoughts. Marriage with right thoughts can help us or staying single and away from everyone but with right thoughts can improve us too. The concept of marriage was introduced in our society for a reason. The reason was not bad. But now with time the main purpose and reason got lost. Love is love...it doesn't require a certification of marriage. If we are in love with someone, we should question ourselves....will marriage put my insecurity of loosing my loved one put to rest? But is marriage really full proof that you will never loose ur loved one? It's not, isn' it? We see people who were in love once and got married getting seperated and getting divorced. So does marriage guarantee anything? In some countries females marry to get financial security and men marry to get someone who will tk care of his house, family, kids etc. Both reasons are absolutely wrong reasons to get married. In some countries parents marry off their underaged daughters for protection n financial security. Again nothing spiritually encouraging about it. Some priveleged countries get to choose whom they want to marry. Well still they have complaints and some end up terribly. If you observe spritually....two souls staying together under the same roof either married or unmarried or any relationship even as room mates or as any other relationship is nothing but karmic account settlement. A roommate can abuse you so can a husband or wife. A step mother or step father can abuse you so can your own uncle or brother. Marriage just gives you a social or emotional reason to try your best to be more tolerant and patient. Any couple puts a lot of efforts in the relationship before saying I quit. So yes marriage can make you or break you. If you get married with the thought that I will be an asset in the life of my partner and not a liability....it is the right thought. I will get married to give give and give. If I get married to get either love, security anything......we open the door for disaster. Because we cannot control anyone and cannot guarantee getting love. I just want to spend my good n bad days in the company of my lover should be the attitude. If I think my partner should take care of me, give me what I need.....again disaster. Because when ur partner doesn't.....u think ur marriage is not working. So for spiritual growth ....keep the remote of your happiness in your hand... married or unmarried doesn't matter. Only focus on giving and don't feel disheartened if you don't get. Remember universe will find a channel to give u what u deserve. With this attitude you can grow spiritually in any situation with anyone without having fear or resistance.